Reasons Why Your Soulmate Cannot Be Found

Reasons Why Your Soulmate Cannot Be Found

A soulmate is someone that is attracted to your soul. They are part of your life and they are someone that has the same or similar spiritual level that you have. Your soulmate will be attracted to your soul and the purpose that your soul has.

Before you were even born, you had this soulmate in your life, and they were meant to come back to you to help you reach your higher self.

If you haven’t found your soulmate yet, here are some reasons why that might be happening:

Being Yourself

Some people want to be someone else and instead of improving their own lives, they choose to express themselves like others.

If you aren’t living your best self, chances are that you will have a hard time finding your soulmate.

Attracting Wrong People

Your soulmate will be attracted to your soul and this will mean that you share the same vibrational frequency. When you aren’t being your best self or you are hiding your feelings and emotions, your soulmate might not be able to find you.

You have to learn to acknowledge your feelings and work through things such as guilt and fear. If you are sad, you have to stop repressing that and learn to change your feelings.

The Law of Attraction means that you are attracting the same energy you are putting out there. Make sure your energy is positive.

Subconscious Mind

Our mind is a funny thing and if we are suppressing things in our lives, we are not able to move past things we need to fix.

We must fix our bad attitudes and our bad habits and if you are not letting this happen, you are ignoring yourself.

Relationship Repeats

Maybe you keep getting into the same types of relationships and you are having a hard time finding people in your life that you can trust.

This can cause you to be hurt and to keep repeating the same actions over and over again. Love and integrity are hard to find and if you keep attracting the same bad relationships over and over, you are not expressing who you really are.

Not Right

Some people feel that they are not in their right mind because their body is on autopilot. The truth is that most of us spend much of our time on auto pilot and we keep playing the same thoughts and emotions over and over again until we let our emotions push us beyond who we are.

Not in the Right Place

You need to find your soulmate in the right place, and this isn’t going to be the bar. Stop going to places where you pick up negative relationships and start putting yourself out somewhere good.

Go to coffee shops or the gym to find your soulmate. Put yourself out in places and things that you are compassionate about and you will find your soulmate there.


Your ego is something that you are familiar with because it is part of our subconscious mind. The actions that we take are often programmed into our lives.

Your ego is there to protect you and to help you identify who you are but if our let your ego take over, your emotions will not be as strong. Let your pain be felt and do not let your ego cause you to be emotionalism.


Your soul is filtered, and your ego shares a conscious understanding of what you think of love and life. Let your life shine and let your light be strong and your soulmate will find you.

About Ruth Delossantos

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